Francis of Assisi writes that “The servant of God cannot know how much patience and humility he has within himself as long as everything goes well with him.” (XIII) Even if Francis had left it at that, that quote could stand by itself and it would have been powerful enough. But he continues by saying that “when the time comes in which those who should do him justice do quite the opposite to him, he has only as much patience and humility as he has on that occasion and no more.” (XIII) As someone who has a younger sister, believe me when I say that if she gets me really mad, it is very hard for me to be patient with her. I consider myself a very patient person but if you get on my bad side, all bets are off.
Aristotle says that the man who does not get angry at the things he should be angry at "is thought unlikely to defend himself; and to endure being insulted and put up with insult to one's friends is slavish" (Aristotle 41). While he states that passivity is preferred to excessive anger, he still gives great criticism to it. In contrast to Aristotle, the man who Christians believe to be the most just is Jesus who states in Matthew 5:39-40, "...do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well." Essentially, arguing that one is not to respond in anger when insulted or hurt, to not defend one's self. Most individual's are unable to achieve this. Our natural instinct is to defend ourselves, especially in physical cases. However, Christians strive to be like Jesus in this way. I would also argue that it is a very admirable wa...
What you wrote about patience is very true! Now that I think about it, it's the same for faith as well. It's easy for us to believe in God when things in our lives are going uphill, but when life throws us a curveball and leaves us winded, that's when things get tricky. That's when we really know if we're faithful or not. You can't say you are something until you are truly tested.
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